Getting your children to do household chores is already a daunting task. They will have a hard time following your rules. They might even give excuses for not doing what you asked of them. If you want to teach them how to do these chores, you should try to talk to them first. Let them know that there’s value in doing these tasks, especially if they want to be independent in the future.
There’s no need to tell them to do the difficult chores. Simple tasks might already suffice. For instance, toddlers can learn how to return their toys to the shelves. They can also keep their playroom clean after playing. If they’re old enough, you can teach them how to sweep the floor, mop the floor, wash the dishes, and clean the cabinets. All of these chores are important, and your children have to learn them.
It only becomes a problem if you tell them to only do specific tasks because of their gender. For instance, you only teach how to clean the house to your female children. If you have boys at home, you will only ask them to help fix the car or other tasks you believe are “manly”. This is a bad idea, and you shouldn’t try to instill gender roles for household chores. If you decided to work with a furniture disposal company, you have to show all your children the process. Segregating trash and taking it out can be a task anyone can do.
There should be no boundaries
The problem with assigning gender roles for household chores is that you limit what your children can do. It might seem like it’s only about these tasks, but it will be more. When they grow older, they might think that there are only a few things that they can do. Even in their career choices, they might think that some fields are only for women while others are for men. We now live in a world where men and women are capable of doing whatever they want. When you’re passionate about something, it doesn’t matter what your gender is. It’s about your skills and abilities and nothing to do with your sexual preference.
It might limit confidence
Another problem is that your children might think that they shouldn’t pursue something they want because of their gender. It prevents them from being confident enough to do what makes them happy. They will take a road that they don’t like, but they believe is suitable for their gender. We have to try our best to be supportive of whatever endeavors our children have. Everything starts at home. It would be terrible to limit their options because of our traditional beliefs and conservative values. As parents, the goal is to be more supportive of our children.
Always highlight the idea that choice is important. People should not feel limited because of certain factors. Being passionate about something means doing it regardless of what society dictates.